First Belly Pic of Pregnancy #2

For obvious reasons, I am not showing my belly itself. (not in a dress silly!) Wow, dresses REALLY emphasize a preggo belly!! I am just shy of 13 weeks in this pic. More about the outfit on Wednesday for WIWW!! The belly has definitely popped out faster with the 2nd pregnancy. It didn't help I had just had a HUGE lunch at Benihana for our anniversary. More about that soon!

WIWW 7/20

Well, now that the word is out, I can explain my lack of blogging, particularly ‘What I Wore Wednesday”. I haven’t been taking pictures of my outfits for 2 reasons. (1) All of my clothes are already maternity (mostly), and we were not announcing the pregnancy yet, so I didn’t want to post about it! (2) I have slipped into Mommy-mode clothes more often than not because yoga pants and sweats have elastic waists and all of my ‘cute’ pre-pregnancy clothes no longer fit. I’ve definitely been wearing old t-shirts with comfy pants more days than not. And, I’m certainly not ashamed of it, but haven’t taken pictures. : ) I’ll start doing ‘What I Wore Wednesday, The Maternity Months’ soon, hopefully by next week.

I want to take a minute to send you to the blog of one of my favorite people and best friends in the whole world: That Kind of Mom She is an amazing person, wonderful mom and I just love her! Her blog is so awesome and today’s post is no exception. She is very brave and honest in today’s post and I just love her for all that she does. We’ve known each other since we were 8!!!

Just for fun, here’s a special outfit for WIWW. Last Thursday was (I hope you all know!) the premiere of the final Harry Potter movie. As for every other, I went to the midnight showing, in costume of course!! I didn’t take a picture that night, but here is a pic of me last Halloween (along with my beautiful family) in the same outfit. I am so sad that the movies are done being released, because all of my friends know that I am one of those crazy fans!!! I made most of my outfit myself, back in college, for the premiere of the 3rd movie. I embroidered the Gryffindor colors on the vest and sewed on the patch to my robes myself. (Nelson's costume is from Goodwill, Kalaya's from Babies R Us)

Gryffindor Scarf and patch: Ebay

Vest, graduation robe: Goodwill

Black Skirt: Buffalo Exchange

White shirt, red tie: no idea, borrowed from my husband

Black Knee socks (yup!): Ross

Black Flats: Payless Shoe Source

I am linking with That Kind of Mom

Baby # 2 is on the way!!

Well, we've made our announcement on Facebook, we're pregnant again!! Here is a quick rundown of the pregnancy so far:

How far along are you?

12 weeks on Tuesday

When is the baby due?

January 31, 2012

Will you find out the gender?

Yes, likely around the first week in September

Will you keep the name a secret again?

Actually, probably not. We want Kalaya to be very familiar with the name and she can’t keep a secret. : )

Any names yet?

Not really

Do you want a boy or girl?

Either. Honestly, we will be 100% happy with either.

Is this the last one?

We truly do not know. We do know that we plan to wait at least 5 years after this child is born to make any decisions. (The Snip or try again)

Was this planned?

100% absolutely. We have been VERY blessed that both times we wanted to get pregnant, we were able to on the first try.

Have you been sick?

Minor irritation, but not too much. I mainly get nauseous if I don’t have enough food in my system or indigestion if I eat too much. There’s not really a happy medium. My appetite is shot, because very few foods appeal to me, except plain, plain, plain. (this is all just like my first pregnancy)

Any other symptoms?

Again, all minor. I am SO TIRED ALL THE TIME. I can’t believe how tired I’ve been this time around. Last pregnancy I was teaching 26 2^nd graders full times and it was NOTHING compared to how tired I’ve been this time. Only other things are all the same as last time; acne, trouble sleeping, breast tenderness, Again, all very minor.

How is Kalaya reacting?

Very well so far! Though obviously, she doesn’t really understand. She is very proud of the ‘Big Sister’ shirt we got her and gives ‘mommy’s baby’ lots of hugs and kisses and says I love you baby!

Sigh...another house hunt update...

There's some things to report, but we're still not moving forward. Our market is so incredibly frustrating, because of all of the short sales. We are STILL waiting for final word from the banks on both of the short sale offers that we have.

Okay, I will confess something. We are pretty picky. That's part of the reason this is as hard as it is. I think there have been several times where our realtor (Tammie, who is awesome, by the way) has wanted to just shake us and say, "It's your first house, it's not going to have absolutely everything!!!", and want us to lower our expectations about something just slightly. But, bless her heart, she has put up with our standards.

But, the reality is that I know too much about the schools in the area (which is good for our future children, but makes it harder to find houses in our price range), so there are some areas I don't want to buy in. There is nothing wrong with any of these schools, but I'm being picky. There's nothing wrong with the Hillsboro School District, but we'd rather be in Beaverton. We want (need) a yard, we want 3, preferably 4 bedrooms. We want a house, not a cookie cutter condo or 'house' with houses 2 feet away on either side. We can't afford/don't know how to work with much of a fixer upper. So, needless to say, this has been a challenge for our realtor. But, again, she has been GREAT!

The Tualatin short sale looks like it is probably not going to happen. The bank will not approve anything below $190K, which is way out of our price range. Actually, we are qualified for that high, but I am not having our mortgage be half our income or more. NO WAY. It's frustrating, because it was short sale listed at $159 and we made an offer lower than that. I honestly don't care (TOO MUCH) that we probably won't get it, but it has made me SO angry that we've been basically been waiting for 3 months, having our hopes up for nothing. This just proof that if something seems too good to be true, it very likely is...... Basically, a short sale owner can list at any price to get offers and then has to wait for the bank in charge of their mortgage to approve the offer. This bank will not approve our offer because every other property in the area is worth much more than that. (which we knew) The listing agent is trying to prove to the bank how much work the house needs and the condition it is in, but they don't care. They are hundreds of miles away, have never seen it and only see the value of the property it is on. SIGH

The second offer we have on the 4 bedroom in Aloha (our 2nd choice, but still a lot to offer) seems to be doing better. The listing agent is much more positive about our offer (which is much lower than the Tualatin offer) being accepted. It is on a very quiet cul-de-sac, has a large family room and living room, HUGE yard, 4 bedrooms, dining room and 1 1/2 baths. It needs a lot of yard work and we would likely paint all of the inside. It also needs to be cleaned BIG TIME. I don't know what the current owners are thinking honestly. I'm so embarrassed for them. It is SO FULL of junk and clutter. Luckily, it doesn't appear that there's any damage, just dust and dirt. I'd be mortified for someone to see my house like this. Here is the listing. It is a LIE. I have no idea when these pictures were taken, the house is full of trash and clutter, as well as the yard. But, we are able to see past it for the house's potential and we really like it. We should hear 'any day now'. FINGERS CROSSED! After our offer is hopefully accepted, we cross our fingers for inspection.....

God bless my parents for letting us stay now for 7 MONTHS, which is so much longer than we ever planned or anticipated. We have saved our down payment and enough for minor work and repairs, as well as paid of any additional debt. (not counting Nelson's under grad student loans) It's time to be back in our OWN house!!

Memorial Day 2011

Yes, I know that it was over a month ago, but I wanted to post these pictures anyway. We went out to Eastern Oregon over Memorial Day weekend (Pilot Rock, to be exact) and took Kalaya to 'see' her Great Grandma and Great Grandpa, who have both been gone for several years. She is very lucky to have one set of great grandparents that she's seen a few times, though they live in Alabama. They are actually here for the month right now.

We kept it very simple and she accepted it without batting an eye. She still talks about it almost every time she sees a flag about 'gate gamma, gate gampa, flags and flowers.' That pretty much sums up Memorial Day to me!

July is here??

So, yeah, I have been really, really lazy about blogging lately. Not on purpose. So, here are some updates on our household:

*At 26 months, or 2 years 2 months if you'd prefer, Kalaya is busy busy busy. She is such a pleasant toddler! She plays so well independently and is so curious about everything in the world around her! Her vocabulary is so beyond what I ever expected it, I'm still blown away every day. She is playing so much more with her imagination ("Mommy! Petend seeping, petend baby eat", etc, etc.) She talks about everything she sees and she observes a lot!! Everything from birds and bikes to pointing out the letters and shapes she knows as we drive around. ("Mommy, octagon, right there! Mommy, G!! H!!!") She still loves reading her books, playing with learning toys, playing with her kitchen and play food, taking care of her babies and pets, playing with her Little People, dressing up, driving her cars and trucks and many, many other imaginary games. We are finally getting nicer and nicer weather, so she has been spending time outside with her sand and water table, her wading pool, Little Tyke slide ($15 on Craig's list!), t-ball set, golf clubs, and just running around exploring.

*Though most of the time she is very laid back and low key, we are definitely in the twos! We do have occasional temper tantrums and 'no!'s as well as kicking, screaming fits, but mostly she listens fairly well. She has tough days (as does Mommy!), but they're fairly predictable, aka if she's not eaten recently, misses nap or gets up or naps too early. All in all, compared to other stories of the twos I've seen, she seems to be doing really well.

*You will notice there haven't been any recent posts about the damn (sorry) house hunt. We are still at a stand still with the same two houses we have offers on. Short sales are CRAP, but unfortunately, that's our market. I know it will be worth the wait and I feel like we really can't complain, because my parents are so generous to let us keep living here (for FREE) and we're putting money in savings each month, but.....it's time to be in our own place again.

*I am no longer head of the committee for my high school reunion. Well, that's not true. I technically am. But, we had to cancel it, because no one was willing to pay to go. I am very disappointed, but it is what it is. I will say that it has taken a large stress away, which is nice.

HAPPY SUMMER!!!

Small Style 6/9 Flower Girl Edition

Saturday was a beautiful day in the Northwest (finally!) and the perfect day for a wedding. Kalaya had her first role as a flower girl. For the whole story, click here. Her whole outfit cost less than $50. Can't beat that for a flower girl!! And, we doubled it as an Easter dress, so she got more wear out of it.

Dress, Ruby Slippers: Target
Sash: David's Bridal
Ruffled Socks: Hand-me-down
Basket: Michael's

The bow in her hair was originally attached to the back of the dress to be a sash, but I removed it and made it into a hair clip instead. She and the bride both wore red shoes under their dresses. Too cute!!

I am linking with Mama Loves Papa.

Kalaya's Flower Girl Debut

Oh my goodness. I have always wanted a girl and Saturday was the epitome of why. (Kalaya, if you eventually come to realize you were born in the wrong body, I appologize for all of the gushy girliness)

Our friends from college, David and Kim got married at a vineyard in Dallas, Oregon this weekend and it was beautiful. Nelson was a groomsman and Kalaya was the flower girl.

Kim asked me if Kalaya could be the flower girl earlier this year and I was SO excited and immediately said yes! It was so fun to shop for the dress and accessories. Then, as the day approached, I began to wonder what I had gotten Kalaya into. She is pretty timid and very shy in front of people she doesn't know, especially large crowds. But, we figured anything would be cute!

The rehearsal dinner was last Thursday and it did NOT go well. We tried to get her to walk down the aisle 3 different times, from me to Nelson. The first time she refused. The second time Nelson held a bribe (cheese stick) out to her and she started to go to him. Then, everyone watching applauded and she freaked out and cried for 20 minutes. The last time she wouldn't even think about it. So, we were pretty nervous for Saturday, especially since the wedding was during nap time and she would have already had to take a bunch of pictures as well.

She got up really early on Saturday, which actually worked out well, because she took an earlier nap. We got to the wedding site and got her all dressed up. Here she is admiring her pretty self in the mirror of the bridal room.


She posed for pictures relunctantly and only when we bribed her with (organic, sugar free) fruit snacks. (yup, I was kind of 'that parent'. Hey, it was better than the ring bearer who got bribed with M&Ms!!) She didn't smile much and wasn't too thrilled, but she did it. Luckily, she was totally in love with the junior bridesmaid, Cassie, and wanted to follow her every where. Cassie even managed to teach her to throw the petals out of the basket, something we NEVER thought we could get her to do, even in practice.

Practicing with Cassie

Sorta willing to pose for a picture....

Then, the big moment. She did great!!! She threw all of the flowers out of the basket and walked to Daddy, with only a guiding hand from Mommy. She was smiling and happy and did MUCH better than we thought she would. It was so sweet!! When I get a copy of the video, I'll definitely post it!!

Getting ready to walk to Daddy...

Elmo crackers for motivation....okay bribe....

Alright, some help from Mommy was necessary

And she definitely wasn't going to walk out on her own!

She was rewarded with an Elmo balloon at the reception. She did SO well. She was great at the reception too, even though were were at the site for over 6 HOURS!!!

Such a fun day!!!

Had to throw this one in: check out the socks the groomsmen wore under their tuxes!!
PS The bride and Kalaya both wore red shoes with their white dresses : )

Kalaya's 2nd Birthday

It's almost a month after Kalaya's 2nd birthday and I FINALLY feel like I can post about it, since it got stretched out a bit. Let's see, looking back, where to begin....

We gave Kalaya her 'big' present from Mommy and Daddy on the night before her birthday. We had plans for the whole day on the 6th (her actual birthday), so we wanted to make sure to give her the present. She got a Cozy Coupe car that looks like a firetruck that she LOVES. The best part is that it was free to us, we got it as a hand me down and it is still in great shape!

Her actual birthday actually wasn't much fun. She was up throwing up at 4am, poor girl! She didn't keep anything down during the morning and afternoon. We had planned a fun day of going to the Children's museum with our friends and a special birthday dinner, since 3 members of our 2 families have birthdays within 2 weeks of each other in May. She was also supposed to have her 2 month check up, but threw up all over herself in the car on the way, so we rescheduled. I think she actually had a pretty good day despite the vomit, because she got to sit and watch plenty of Elmo to keep her in one place, incase of another incident.

She was feeling much better the Saturday after, so we had dinner with my parents to celebrate her birthday and Mother's Day together, with dinner at Red Lobster. My parents got her a really cute sand and water table that she's been having a lot of fun with. (even if it has been staying in the garage, because Oregon is just ignoring the fact that it's spring, let alone almost summer!!)

We did get to go to dinner with our friends a week later, on Nelson's birthday. We went to PF Chang's. Here are the girls getting ready to go celebrate both daddies and Kalaya's birthdays.

We had a small party at our church, which was basically a glorified playdate with just a couple of families, snacks and cake. Everything was bunny themed and it was a nice, quiet, simple party. We had nice weather, so the kids were able to play outside on the playground and patio.

We also celebrated her birthday down in Salem with Nelson's family.

She got some really nice gifts; the car, the sand table, sand toys, lots of new clothes, new shoes, musical instruments, a veterinary kit, a tee, bat and ball, golf clubs, a toy to practice her letters, and new shoes. (probably more, but that's all I can think of off the top of my head!)

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It's been a sad week for me. The Oprah Show had its final episode.

I know, I know. It's 'just' a TV show. But, it's really not. It's so much more.

Describing Oprah and her show is almost impossible to me. I have thought and thought of how to put into words what an amazing human being she is. And what she has done for the world. For women. For minorities. For the gay community. For victims of molestation, rape and abuse. For all of those who just want to be heard. And to feel validated.

She is more than just a talk show host. She is an inspiration. A visionary. A woman that millions of women, girls (and everyone else!) can look to as a hero, as a role model.

I can't claim to have seen every episode. Not even close. I didn't start watching Oprah regularly until I was in my 20s. My mom didn't watch her, so I found her on my own. (haha, 'OWN' is her new network :) The first episode I ever watched was an episode of her Favorite Things that she had designed just for teachers in the fall of 2004. I was hooked after that.

As a teacher, woman, and especially now as a mother, her show has come to mean so much to me. I could count on it every night on the DVR to inspire me, to entertain me, to challenge me. So many episodes it seemed as though she was speaking right to me.

Oprah has kept me grateful. She's kept me thankful for the ridiculous amount of blessings I have. She's inspired me to strive to live my Best Life and be my best self. She's taught me the power of positive thinking, of being aware of the energy we put out into the world. She's taught me how to step back and take a moment, whether to enjoy the simple pleasures or to gather myself back up and focus. She has helped me to be a better mother, better wife, a better human being.

On Wednesday, Facebook had different reactions to the ending of the show. Most of my friends (the girls at least) who commented were sad, disappointed, devastated. Many chose to say nothing at all. Many didn't know or didn't care. But, a few people said things such as, "What is the big deal about Oprah anyway?" Really? REALLY???? It's clear to me that you've a) never watched the show and b) never looked into what Oprah has done with her own life and the lives of countless others. Come on now. SHAME ON YOU

Oprah, I'll miss your show at 4 every day. I still think there's a lot you can teach me. If you would just air repeats of your show at 4:00 every weekday, I think I could catch up on what I missed out on.

Thank you for inspiring me to be my Best Self. I'll keep trying.